"WHEN
GOD PUTS YOU 'ON HOLD!'"
Written and
preached by David P. Nolte
JOHN 11:1-25
Play video clip. Don't you just love it? Being put on hold, I mean. And
the music! Just the right
choice to soothe jangled nerves. Not one of my favorite pastimes -
listening to somebody else's
choice of music and waiting, and waiting, and waiting. Do you ever feel
like that in life? Do you feel
like that when you pray? How do you feel when God puts you "on hold?"
In the text we see the
sisters of Lazarus calling Jesus. Lazarus was sick to the point of
death. And Jesus put the sisters on
hold. Lazarus' sisters waited with bated breath for Jesus to show up
and heal their brother. They
grew frantic. "Why doesn't Jesus come? Doesn't He know about our
crisis? Didn't He get our
message? Is He too busy to come? Or does He not care? Or is He not able
to help?" They were
on hold. Have you ever felt that way? You are sick or impoverished or
depressed or afraid or
overwhelmed. You cry out, "Lord, I'm in big trouble here! Come and
help!" And nothing seems to
happen. We are often on hold. We think God will never get on line and
rescue us. Here are some
things to consider when it seems like that.
- When You Are
"On Hold," Remember That God's Timing Is Not Our Timing:
- We like things quick, soon, immediate, right now: quicker
Microwaves, faster and
faster computers and shorter short-cuts are to our taste. We hate
delays like long
lines in the supermarket, stop lights, trains crossing, slow trucks,
waiting rooms and
being put on hold.
- We even want God to act promptly when we call to Him! We want
Him to use our
time schedule! We cry out,
- "Heal me, Lord, for my body is in agony. I am sick at heart.
How long, O
Lord, until You restore me?" Psalms 6:2-3 (NLT).
- "O Lord, why do You stand so far away? Why do You hide when I
need You
the most?" Psalms
10:1 (NLT).
- "My God, my God! Why have You forsaken me? Why do You remain
so
distant? Why do You ignore my cries for help? Every day I call to You,
my
God, but You do not answer. Every night You hear my voice, but I find
no
relief." Psalms
22:1-2 (NLT).
- But think about it:
- Time is really not a factor with the infinite, eternal God. A
thousand years is
but a day in His sight, though to us a day is like a thousand years
when we are
"on hold" and waiting.
- As the song says, "He makes all things beautiful in His
time." But it is "in His
time" not in my time or your time.
- Lazarus' sisters wanted Jesus on their time schedule! They
wanted Him when
they wanted Him!
- Corrie Ten Boom learned a lesson about God's timing. When she
was a little girl, she
went to her father and said, "Daddy, I am afraid that I will never be
strong enough to
be a martyr for Jesus Christ." "Tell me," said Father, "When you take a
train trip to
Amsterdam, when do I give you the money for the ticket? Three weeks
before?" "No, Daddy, you give me the money for the ticket just before
we get on the train." "That is right," her father said, "and so it is
with God's strength. Our Father in
Heaven knows when you will need the strength to be a martyr for Jesus
Christ. He
will supply all you need - just in time."
- When You Are
"On Hold,"
Remember That He Is Never Too Late, Nor Is He
Too Early:
- The sisters waited. Jesus didn't come. Lazarus died. Jesus put
them on hold. When
He got there they were dismayed. He was too late! But His timing is not
our timing,
and He is never too late - but neither is He ever too early.
- God is never sluggish, nor is He ever in a rush. He is never
restrained, nor is He
pushed to precipitous action; He is never like a quarterback who throws
the pass too
late and gets sacked, nor is he hurried like a quarterback being
blitzed and throwing
a careless pass too soon.
- Things happening too late or too early can be disastrous:
- Planting a crop too late can prevent proper production.
- But planting too early can expose the crop to frosts which
nip the buds and
ruin a crop.
- Putting on the brakes too late can result in a rear-ender and
a lot of heartache.
- But gunning away from a traffic signal too early, before it
turns green, can be
fatal.
- Children having children because they were taught too late to
wait for
marriage let themselves in for years of grief and remorse
- But kindergartners being taught sex education and
contraceptive methods is
far too early and is just ludicrous.
- Events, even God's events, need to come in their season. Too
late or too
early both have attached negative consequences.
- But God is never too late nor too early. Think about it:
- Many of the Jews gave up hope of Messiah ever coming. But
though He
waited for 1500 years, and they thought He'd never come, "when the
right
time came, God sent His Son, born of a woman," Galatians 4:4 (NLT). He
came, not too late or too early.
- Jesus is coming again, but some imagine that since He has not
yet come, He
will never come. Peter records it like this: "This will be their
argument: 'Jesus
promised to come back, did He? Then where is He? Why, as far back as
anyone can remember, everything has remained exactly the same since the
world was first created.'" 2 Peter 3:4 (NLT). He will come in His time
and
He won't be either late or early.
- It does nobody any good for something to happen too late or
soon. I've gone
to meetings only to discover that I was a week late and had missed it
altogether. Conversely, I once went to an OCEF meeting, or thought I
was. I had rearranged my schedule to be at this meeting. When I
arrived, nobody
was there. So I waited - and waited. Finally someone drove up to the
church
and I asked about the meeting. They said, "Oh, that's next Friday!" It
didn't
do me a whit of good to show up a week late or a week early. Nor does
it do
us a whit of good for God to do what He will do before it is time for
Him to
do it. He is never too late, nor is He ever too early.
- When You Are
"On Hold,"
Remember That Delay Is Not Denial:
- Many times we think He is saying, "No!" when He is only saying,
"Wait!" We think
He says, "Never!" when He is only saying, "Not yet!" We think the delay
is denial;
we think the delay is disastrous; we think the delay damages us.
- But as Ray Stedman said, "The delay will help us. It will not
hurt us. It will make us
stronger. So Jesus deliberately delayed because He loved them and knew
this would
strengthen their faith as they learned the ultimate outcome when God
would work." And, "I want to tell you there have been many times when I
have cried out to God for
help and said, 'Things are so bad it can't get any worse. Lord, do
something. Help
us.' But no answer came. That is hard. It is hard to believe. It is
hard to wait. But
I am gradually learning that delay is never the end of the story,
gradually learning
what God said so clearly through the prophet Isaiah, 'My thoughts are
not your
thoughts, and My ways are not your ways,' Isaiah 55:8. That is what is so
difficult.
God is sovereign. He is not a man that He should act like we act. There
are
dimensions of the problems which He sees that we do not remotely
imagine. There
are possibilities and opportunities in every situation that we cannot
conceive of. So
we must wait and quietly trust, knowing that He is working out
something." Yes, He
is working out something - and though it takes some time, delay is not
denial!
- Think of these who waited and, in God's time, received what was
promised:
- Abraham and Sarah. When Abraham was 75 God promised him
offspring;
Ishmael was born 11 years later and Isaac was not born until 25 years
later! But it did happen. Delay was not denial!
- Israel in Egypt wanting deliverance from oppression. They
were slaves for
430 years but finally they were freed. Delay was not denial!
- The Jews waiting for Messiah. For over 1500 years the nation
waited, and in
the fulness of time God sent forth His Son. Delay was not denial!
- The woman with a 12 year hemorrhage who touched the hem of
Jesus'
garment and was healed. Delay was not denial!
- Waiting is difficult, but it can bring us blessing. A
grandfather was taking a nature
hike with his 6 year old grandson. The child was impatiently running
ahead, and came
to a creek. Afraid that he was going to fall in, the grandfather
shouted, "Wait for me
and I'll get you across!" The child reluctantly obeyed, and when the
grandfather got
there, he lifted the child upon his shoulders, and waded across the
creek. The
grandchild said, "Boy, Grandpa, If I hadn't waited, I would never have
got across!" How true of us. Let us wait on God! In His time and in His
way, He'll get us across
any obstacle that gets in our way. His timing is not our timing; He is
never too late
or too early; and delay is not denial.
Jesus was four days late but He was right on time. John 11:17-23.
Even when He seems late, He
will be right on time! So, don't give up hope. Even when it seems
hopeless, God is in control. He
may not answer until all hope seems to be gone, but believe it: He will
answer. Maybe not when you
want Him to. Maybe not in the way you want Him to. Maybe you are on
hold. But remember, God
is always on time and God's ways are always right. God just may be
waiting for you to come to the
end of you so you will come to the beginning of Him! There have been
many times that I have
wanted God to hurry up. I have not understood what God was doing in my
life. I have been
confused about what was happening and I have thought, "Lord, please
just explain all of this to me. Please help me understand what it is
You are teaching me. Please just make Your will known." Maybe you think
the same thoughts. But know this: in your times of impatience, waiting,
and
yearning, the God who holds the future holds our lives in His hands.
God is never in a hurry. But
in one area He wants things to happen now: "Now is the day of
salvation." Today He wants you to
know Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Today He wants you to put your life
in His hands. Today He
wants you to learn to trust Him. You may do that today as we sing our
song: "More Love, More
Power" / "Softly And Tenderly" Jesus calls, don't put Him on hold.
Story about Grandpa from
SermonCentral.com, Ray Stedman quote from sermon on
SermonCentral.com. Corrie Ten Boom From "Preparing For Tribulation"
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