"WHEN
YOU SUFFER!"
Written and preached by David P. Nolte
1 PETER 5:6-10
Suffering comes in many sizes, shapes, colors, textures, measures and
weights. Suffering mildly irritates or it cripples completely; suffering
aggravates or it debilitates; suffering impairs us slightly or it can enfeeble
us entirely. Suffering can lead us to any one of four different lands: the
barren land in which we dry and shrivel up; the broken land in which we are
crushed under it; the bitter land in which we seethe with resentment or the
better land in which we bear suffering patiently and become the better for
it. Suffering can make us bitter or better depending upon how we react or
respond to it. We choose our attitudes, even our attitudes toward
suffering. To a large degree the effect suffering has in our lives
depends upon our own attitude. It isn't so much what happens to us
that matters; it's how we deal with it that counts. Peter has some
words for sufferers that can affect our attitude in a positive way.
The early Christians suffered poverty, privation and persecution. Peter's
writes to them to point out 3 vital truths to help them endure. To
develop a healthy attitude, to endure, when you suffer remember these vital
truths:
- REMEMBER THAT
SUFFERING IS UNIVERSAL: V9:
- We are not unique in our suffering; we are not exempt from suffering;
we are not alone in our suffering; we have not been singled out for suffering.
One of the common experiences of mankind, rich or poor, young or old,
educated or ignorant, good or bad is suffering. Peter wrote: "Dear friends,
do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something
strange were happening to you. But rejoice that you participate in the
sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed."
1 Peter 4:12-13 (NIV).
- Some of God's most faithful servants have been those who suffered
most intensely:
- Paul the Apostle whose life was fully given to serving God
suffered. He wrote in response to his critics: "Are they servants of Christ?
(I am out of my mind to talk like this.) I am more. I have worked much harder,
been in prison more frequently, been flogged more severely, and been exposed
to death again and again. Five times I received from the Jews the forty
lashes minus one. Three times I was beaten with rods, once I was stoned,
three times I was shipwrecked, I spent a night and a day in the open sea,
I have been constantly on the move. I have been in danger from rivers, in
danger from bandits, in danger from my own countrymen, in danger from Gentiles;
in danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea; and in
danger from false brothers. I have labored and toiled and have often gone
without sleep; I have known hunger and thirst and have often gone without
food; I have been cold and naked. Besides everything else, I face daily
the pressure of my concern for all the churches." 2 Corinthians 11:23-28 (NIV).
- Paul warned others of imminent suffering: "In fact, everyone
who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted," 2
Timothy 3:12 (NIV).
- Jesus Christ Himself was not spared suffering: "And being
in anguish, He prayed more earnestly, and His sweat was like drops of blood
falling to the ground." Luke 22:44 (NIV).
- Let me speak the truth in love; please hear velvet, not sandpaper
in my voice: Who do we think we are to imagine that we ought to be spared
suffering, sorrow, pain or grief? Why do we imagine that somehow our way
ought to be so hedged in and protected that we never experience any hardship
or inconvenience or difficulty? We will not escape suffering, so we might
as well learn to endure it, to grow through it, and to glorify God in it.
Suffering is universal and we will have our share.
- A elderly Chinese philosopher was approached by a young woman
who was grief stricken because of the loss of her only son. "I will be able
to help you," he assured her, "if you will bring me some mustard seed; but
it must be obtained at a home where there has never been any sorrow." Eagerly
the woman started on her quest. In every place she visited, however, there
had been trials and losses and sorrow. After a day or so of seeking, she
returned to the philosopher and said, "How selfish I have been in my grief.
I see now that great sorrow is common to all." She had learned a lesson
and acquired wisdom that eased her grief and prepared her to sympathize
with others. Suffering is universal.
- REMEMBER THAT
SUFFERING IS TEMPORARY: V10:
- "A little while." That's sort of relative, isn't it? I mean,
compared to a life-time, 10 years is a "little while." This is an unspecified
time to be sure. But it leaves light at the end of the tunnel; it means
that suffering will have an end; it shows that a better day is approaching.
- These are wonderful words that point to hope:
- "For His anger lasts only a moment, but His favor lasts a
lifetime; weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning."
Psalms 30:5 (NIV).
- "Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy. He who
goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying
sheaves with him." Psalms
126:5-6 (NIV).
- Hear this and believe it: Suffering is not the final word for
the believer in Jesus; tears are not the ultimate experience; the day of
pain and sorrow will end and the dawn of joy will burst forth! You can
say in the hardest of moments: "This, too, shall pass!"
- I have a brown thumb. I can kill a plastic plant. But I understand
that capable gardeners sometimes deprive a rose of light and moisture for
just a limited time to bring it to richer flowering. Mrs. H. B. Stowe says,
"After being in the dark for awhile, the green parts begin to wither as
though the bush were about to die. But when every faded leaf has dropped
and the plant stands almost completely stripped, a new life is working
in the buds. Eventually, because of these temporary limitations there
will spring forth a new, tender foliage and a brighter wealth of flowers.
So, too, in the life of the Christian the Heavenly Gardener often allows
almost every vestige of earthly joy to disappear before He permits new blooms
of grace to visit the soul." The poet said: "Is it raining, little flower?
Be glad of rain. The sun that veils itself from you will shine again.
The clouds are very black, 'tis true; but just behind them shines the blue.
Are you weary, tender heart? Be glad of pain. In sorrow, sweetest things
will grow as flowers in the rain. God watches and you will have sun, when
clouds their perfect work have done." Suffering is temporary.
- REMEMBER THAT SUFFERING WILL BE RELIEVED BY GOD'S COMFORT:
V10:
- Note: God Himself will "perfect, confirm, strengthen and establish
you." I pity those who exclude God; either they blame Him and shut Him
out, or they just don't know how to trust Him and are therefore compelled
to face hard times on their own. But though He has never promised to spare
us suffering, He has promised to be with us in and through it! If we let
Him, He will comfort, sustain, help, strengthen and deliver us.
- There are two promises of which I want to remind you. One relates
to this life, one to the life to come.
- "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,
the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, Who comforts us in
all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort
we ourselves have received from God. For just as the sufferings of Christ
flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows."
2 Corinthians 1:3-5
(NIV).
- "And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, 'Now the
dwelling of God is with men, and He will live with them. They will be His
people, and God Himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe
every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying
or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.'" Revelation 21:3-4 (NIV).
- God is the Father of mercies; the God of all comfort! He notices
every tear and promises to wipe them away! Earth has no sorrow that Heaven
cannot heal. Our hope is not for nirvana; not for an endless cycle of
reincarnations; not ultimate annihilation: it is eternal life, hope, comfort
and peace in the presence of the Father. And in the meanwhile: comfort,
and strength in the here and now.
- Thyra Bjorn told the story of accompanying her pastor father
one evening to the shack of Hank, a poverty-stricken old man. He was crippled
with age and pain, yet he offered them warm hospitality. After the visit,
they prayed together and the old man's face shone with joy and peace.
He thanked God for His providence: his home, his bed, his food, and his
visitors. Thyra and her father departed. She asked how Hank could be so
cheerful in his poor surroundings. As they neared home they could see
the light in the window of their own home in the valley below. Father
pointed it out to his daughter and told her that Hank had seen the light
in the Heavenly Father's house and knew that he soon would be home. The
old man knew that beyond his earthly sufferings there was no more sickness
or pain or loneliness or poverty. The light of Heaven eased his pain;
the comfort of the Father brought him joy.
Perhaps you are suffering as I speak. Perhaps your faith is shaken by
it. Perhaps you fell that God doesn't love you. Perhaps you feel that
your pain will never end. Perhaps you feel that your suffering is some
sort of punishment. If you are suffering for some sin, God will make
that clear to you - it is a call to repentance and forgiveness. If you
are suffering for some folly - yours or that of someone else, give it to
God for resolution. If you are suffering as do all people, trust God to
make it meaningful suffering. In any case, agree with Paul: "That is why
I am suffering as I am. Yet I am not ashamed, because I know Whom I have
believed, and am convinced that He is able to guard what I have entrusted
to Him for that day." 2 Timothy 1:12 (NIV). Suffering will
come! But let your faith give you the victory. Tribulations will abound,
but be of good courage, Jesus has overcome. He will see you through. Commit
your life to Him who is able to save you. Come to Jesus. He said,
"Whoever comes to me I will in no wise cast out." He invites you; He
calls you; he waits for you. In your suffering, in your grief, in your
pain, He is a Helper! Come to Him. Out of your darkness, out
of your defeat, out of your despair, come to Jesus. Come to Him. Come
now as we sing.
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